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Posted by on Mar 18, 2016 in Dating Tips, Disability Dating, Disabled Dating |

Who Else Wants Disabled Dating Advice?

Dating has become a somewhat hard nut to crack for a majority of single people. While online dating has become popularized, it is never as easy as marketers want it to look like. There are often barriers at every turn and this will be even harder if you have a disability.

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disability dating

A person living with a disability must have realized at one time or another just how difficult it is to be perceived like the rest. People tend to look at you as a disabled person then try to annoyingly figure out your personality after. But as some relationship experts say, do not try to look past the disability of a person ‘love them for who they are’.

Relationships can start anytime and between anyone irrespective of race, age difference and gender. All a person will need to be is to be open to the prospect of an exciting relationship with a person with a good heart and with whom they share a majority of life’s interests. There is no well predefined path upon which every other person can trudge on. It is for this reason that everyone should keep in mind the importance of being open to anything when it comes to relationships.

1. Single disabled person

For a single that is looking forward to finding someone to share their life’s happiness and other happenings with, they need to arm themselves with the best dating tips. The dating scene is wide and you can easily find yourself dating a non-disabled person or a person with disabled.

Dating has everything to do with the inner self than the way a person looks like. Present yourself as a person who can take care of their business without the need of help. No matter what you might be tempted to do or present yourself as, always remember that being honest to yourself does a great deal in helping the other person appreciate you for who you are.

2. Single non-disabled person

As stated earlier, the dating scene is pretty complicated and filled with everyone you can imagine of. We are living in times when dating is more congruent to the use of the internet. It is pretty easy to fall in love with a person you have never met or rather you have only met online.

The internet happens to be the best place where people first meet and appreciate each other for who they are and then the physical appearance details follow. A person with a disability and who love themselves as they are, will not find it hard to mention their disability. As a single ‘normal-bodied’ person, you need to bear in mind that finding your soul mate in a person with a disability is just as likely as finding it in a ‘normal’ one.

3. Parents of single person and everyone else

If you are a parent of a beautiful daughter or a handsome lad, you will want the best for them. It is paramount that parents of both young persons with disabilities and the normal ones to be ready to embrace the soul mate that their beloved children get in their lives.

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Posted by on Mar 18, 2016 in Disability Dating, Disabled Dating, Disabled Singles |

3 Myths Of Free Disabled Dating Finally Shattered

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The dating scene has for the past many centuries transformed and adapted to the changing environments. We have moved from interracial and transgender dating yet we are considerably skeptical when it comes to dating someone with a physical disability. There are many negative assumptions and stereotype myths that have been persistent in our society for so long. This negativity has finally come to be perceived as the ‘truth’ by many people who have no facts about dating people with disabilities. Here are some of the leading myths which are demystified;

1. Sex life if any will be terrible

First of all, people who are perfectly normal often cry out loud of how miserable their sex lives are. The media has fed us the wrong information of how sex should be like. It is often displayed as an activity only for the physically athlete-like people. Contrary to this, sex is what two loving people share and it does not take a lot to understand that sex is all in the head. With a little imagination and wiliness, sex can be great with your partner irrespective of your physical condition.

In order to enjoy sex whether you are disabled or not, great communication must be in play. More often than not, lack of proper clear communication leads couples drifting apart and hence becoming incompatible sexually.

2. Your life will drag as you will be forced to take care of them

It is not hard to find many people looking at people with disabilities as people who are ‘damaged’. They will perceive them as though they are a bother for a ‘normal’ person and to get involved with them, you really need to sacrifice a lot. An important fact to soak in is that a majority of people with disabilities live full lives which are terrifically satisfying. They have great supportive families, rewarding and progressive careers and an amazing social network. Just like you hire something to do something that you are incapable of doing, a disabled person will do the same.

3. You will not be able to do fun things as a couple

The biggest worry for many people who perceive themselves as normal find people with disabilities as inhibited in countless ways. They will even be afraid to come into contact with these people because they think they might harm them more.

A disabled person may not be a great swimmer, they may not be great bicycle riders or football players but so are many other people who are ‘normal’. The one thing for a person who separates people into ‘normal’ and disabled is to know that for every successful normal doctor, politician, husband, teacher, wife, musician, actor or sailor, there is another one who is disabled and as successful. You only need to open your eyes to the world and realize that a person is not defined by their physical looks and prowess. Every person is different and they are what they are because of their personality, attitude and perception to life. Appreciating these facts makes disabled dating very easy.

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